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Patronize

Patronize   Appears like kindness It’s superiority  Treatment is unseen ~LWB Butterfly  🦋   It’s not easily identified, especially if you are the target  It’s an insulting put down towards your efforts It appears like you can’t do anything right  Beware of the condescending word like “sweetie” it’s a sign of being kindly insulting. Communication with a person if you feel like this is happening to you. It could happen at work or home. Be honest and clear the air so you won't feel dismissed   Here are 7 signs to beware of as you identify this trait Not taken seriously - They become condescending towards you and the things you do and don’t treat you with respect  Interruptions - The first sign of disrespect is because the person does not value your point of view (POV). They cut off your reasonings Extreme feedback - With you always doing something or never doing something.    It’s a grand exaggeration of your actions and words. Saying “calm down” - It appears like you are being irate

Positioning

  Positioning  Arranging yourself  Particular position  It’s a special place  LWB Butterfly 🦋  Position yourself to live in happiness, I understand that bad situation may be something you may experience. On those  days allow yourself to learn a lesson and on those best days allow yourself to enjoy the memories. How are you positioning yourself with things you want to see happen? Allow favor to flow in your life so you can see results that will position you to master the goals that you desire. Positioning yourself to be creative and you will be surprised with the outcome. Be honest with what you are wanting to position yourself to do in order for you to discover what is best for you. Here are 7 tips that will help you as you are developing was to position yourself for greatness Actively Listen /Silence the business (people, devices, entertainment) to the inner voice inside. Find a quiet place and process ways to execute your discoveries by connecting with your creator Ask questions: Ha

PAIN

Pain It hurts bad It is indescribable  It’ll ease over time #LWB Butterfly  🦋   We have to learn how to turn pain into power! Be gentle with pain  Be present with your pain so you can face it head-on Pain will Hurt and is inevitable, but try to find a happy place to avoid destruction  Avoid pain want to stop it. Instead, it could keep you stuck in a uncomfortable place. Allow love to heal your pain.  Here are 7 tips to help you as you are healing  Reflect on positive moments to counter the painfulness and reframe your thoughts  Be gentle - having patience with yourself will help you to heal. Don’t do what you think others think is best. You are an individual with uniqueness that was crafted just for you. Offer yourself compassion Self-Care - seek out support from mantras who can guide you to a place of comfort and peace. Keep empowering yourself  Process it - things want be the same so take your time to understand the new journey you are on. Give time to think about it, process it, an

Storms

  Storms It appears quickly  It is a powerful force They don’t last very long ~LWB Butterfly  🦋   We may bend, but we won't  break from life issues.  Have you ever dealt with something so powerful that you thought it was gonna take you out? I sure have.  A storm has an effect that can destroy what you have, but it causes you to rise and have a better outcome in the end.  For example, when a storm comes it is seeking after the destruction, and whatever is built if it’s in the way it will cause it to be destroyed.  You may not have what it is you had before the storm, but you have an opportunity to build something greater and bigger after the storm. You have to be steadfast focused, and determined. When heaviness comes don’t allow it to disrupt your peace.   Here are seven steps to consider when facing a storm.  Maintenance- we have the warning  signed just equip yourself mentally and physically for the outcome  Clean up - your thinking will become distorted and whimsical, don’t all

CLARITY

Clarity Being transparent  It allows a connection  Lucidity is expressed ~LWB Butterflies  🦋   Lucidity allows clearness of a person's thought. We must clarify truth directly if we are seeking understanding from one another. Clarity allows a connection that causes a strong engagement between people.    If you don’t have clarity, confusion can setting in and cause misunderstandings. Clarity expresses what we really want to say and gives you the confidence you need to share with others.    It removes the unknown feelings and thoughts that someone may have.   Clarity is simplifying a situation that could get out of control if it is not handled. Your messages will improves and you will be able to connection well with others.  Here are 7 tips. that can help you to always clarify what your true intentions are with people and yourself Be Concise - keep it sweet snd short (KISS) Be Laser-focus - with your actions, intentions, and deeds Be specific - with what you want and remove any ambig

Distraction

  Distraction   Your focus is off It takes your full attention  Prevents you from goals  ~LWB Butterfly  🦋   Distractions keep you from focusing on what truly matters to you and for your life. It is a subtle way that causes you to forget what is important.    It’s time to stay on track and not allow situations, circumstances, or people to remove you from achieving things in your life. Not being distracted takes time and the bottom line is you have to identify it to prevent it. It’s time for you to win back what’s important in your life  It’s hard not to allow your pleasures to get in the way ... Here are seven tips that will help you not to lose focus and become distracted Remove things that will take your attention  Keep vision - Be dedicated to things you are trying to accomplish No procrastinating- stay on task don’t be stuck completely the task in an effective way  No extreme- Create and set small and long term goals that will keep you forced  Visualize - get your mind and body re

Actions

Actions It is a verb It is something that is done  Only you can do it ~ LWB Butterfly  🦋   Actions allow a person to show without words. They cause you to go above what you are thinking.  Your current actions will become your future goals. One stronghold we deal with is procrastination. Try not to allow any obstacles to hold you back from what you say you want.  To do something there must be a plan in place for you to execute it and then you will eventually journey through the process.  Don’t overthink the plan, because that could be counterproductive and cause a delay.    Your actions will require time so give yourself what is necessary so you will be proud of the outcome. Remember for every action there is a reaction so make sure you are in control of your emotional state during the process. Here are seven tips to help you to master actions. Don’t focus on results.    You know what you want to see happen, so enjoy each step that you need to take  Avoid distraction. They will get you